Events & Workshops
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Fetish Wear Everyday [Every Day] Anywhere [Any Wear] for Anybody [Any Body] |
Murder They Wore is a Bay Area-based Alternative Fashion styling service, shop, and events company dedicated to showing people that alternative fashion wear can be worn anyday anywhere by anybody. We strive to deliver high quality, fashion-forward pieces that fit extreme to elegant looks that can be worn from a kink party to a family event. We do this by removing the fear and anxiety around fashion to connect you to what makes you feel sexy/authentically you/empowered through styling sessions where we help you dress to the ”9s”, our apparel, and our events to hold space to celebrate alternative fashion and the authentic and empowered you! |
MARCH 2023 UPCOMING EVENTS |
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South Bay Fetish Fashion Munch FetLife Post: https://fetlife.com/events/
For further questions, DM us or email murdertheyworehelp@gmail.com or text 415-484-9437
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South Bay Fetish Fashion Munch FetLife Post: https://fetlife.com/events/
Dynamico Space - 447 Sutter St. San Francisco
@vivian_masks - MTW Latex Designer
For further questions, DM us or email murdertheyworehelp@gmail.com or text 415-484-9437
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Befriending our Biology: A Polyvagal Primer w/Ali Bravo
In Person: Saturday, March 19 @ 6:00pm - 8:00pm PDT
For Goodness Sake 10157 Donner Pass Rd., Truckee, CA
Online: Wednesday, March 23 @ 6:00pm - 8:00pm PDT
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
– Carl Jung.
In this 2 hour lecture, you will learn the fundamentals of Dr. Stephen Porges’ Polyvagal Theory as it relates to the autonomic nervous system and the magical vagus nerve. We will cover the 3 organizing principles of Polyvagal Theory: Hierarchy, Neuroception and Co-Regulation.
You will learn to identify the different nervous system states and how they affect your body: ventral vagal (safe and social), sympathetic (fight/flight), & dorsal vagal (shutdown/collapse).
We will cover tools & resources to navigate each state. This process, coupled with a spirit of befriending, allows us to find more compassion for ourselves and others.
With an awareness of what is happening physiologically in the body we have the ability to rewrite patterns and move through the world in a new way.
“The autonomic nervous system is the foundation for all of our lived experience”
– Deb Dana
If you would like to go deeper, Ali is hosting a 4 week autonomic exploration in April with a focus on mapping your own nervous system and specific tools to move through the world more regulated and polyvagal informed.
Sliding Scale $22 – $33 (No one turned away for lack of funds)
ONLINE TICKET
IN PERSON TICKET
Meet the Instructor
Ali completed Foundations of Polyvagal Informed Practice for clinicians: an immersive training in August of 2021. She has been actively studying Polyvagal Theory for over 5 years. She is also a licensed Be Body Positive Facilitator. She has done both EFT Level 1 & 2 practitioner training.
She has led multiple 10 week group programs focused on embodiment, nervous system awareness and radical self acceptance. In her personal journal she has extensively utilized many modalities including Internal Family Systems, Attachment Theory, and Non Violent Communication.
Ali is passionate about honoring the full spectrum of ourselves so that we may honor the same in others and is a fierce advocate for everyone’s worthiness to feel pleasure and at home in their bodies.
🚨 Calling all heroes… it’s time for your training! 🚨
⚠️ In the grueling effort to keep Dr. Shame and their allies at bay, we must once again join forces to expand our capacity to give and receive love, intimacy and pleasure. This is your mission should you choose to accept it…
💫 From all across the multiverse we will gather, hidden behind the digital walls of our secret fortress. For two full days we will explore an erotic playground of virtual workshops, demos, classes and more…
❤️ Join us for loveSKILLS, a gathering which honors the power of being witnessed, affirmed in your expression and is above all an opportunity for the individual heroes' process.
🤓 Choose your own adventure… 15 different leaders with 15 unique experiences. This is a space where novice heroes can raise their hands and feel welcomed to discover and harness their sexy super powers. A space where the more advanced Avengers can share skills and expand.
✨For these two days you can give yourself permission to feel a sense of belonging in your uniqueness.